Saturday, March 31, 2018

General Conference April 2018


Tonight was a blessing! My father took me to General Priesthood sessions starting when I was 12. I now go with my son. Our new Prophet, Russell M. Nelson spoke this evening. I am excited about his leadership!-Danny (March 31, 2018)
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Brooke and I were married for eternity in the Washington DC temple. My grandparents and parents have been temple ordinance workers in Washington, D.C.. I am grateful for their example of sacrifice and faith to live away from home and drive long distances to work in the temple. We love the DC temple, but to have a temple in Richmond is overwhelming. Brooke and I both grew up in the Richmond area and all four of our children were born there. I loved Victoria’s reaction, “I could get married in the Richmond temple.” Yes you can. 
This was a great way to celebrate Easter.
- Danny April 1, 2018

Friday, March 30, 2018

Welcome to Spring Break!

The SCA gave out snow cones as the high schoolers were leaving school. I love that V and Danny have had such a good time together at the high school! Love this guy to the left too! Jeff is one of Victoria's good friends and was one of the first people she met here! He was welcoming and inclusive right away when we came to visit the area and went to church one Sunday before moving here. 

Coming to our Bed

Not too frequently anymore, but from time to time...
this sweet thing winds up in our bed. I will enjoy it.

May Misc!

Baseball

Harry Potter by G

Sock Monkey by K

Amazing Icecream truck near our house!

Strange allergic reaction to what I do not know!

Grant saved his money to buy an awesome puppet at Lolipop Station and he and I had fun going to get it and waving to cars driving by afterward.


V made cheering again!


first....

and home!

Katherine having fun at the ball fields

pitching

Brusters! (Do we love ice cream or what?! FYI, we hardly buy it for our house because we love it so much that having it available all of the time would be a bad idea.)
"Bubblegum, bubblegum in a dish"(before prom?)

Our yard is looking beautiful! Love the azalea bushes in bloom! 
I love that I get to be at the youth activities with my kids! Christian is so good to Katherine and lets her join in the fun on the nights (the majority of nights) when Danny isn't home and she has to come. 

I love to see rainbows.

I love to thrift shop and sometimes take pictures of things that I am on the fence about. These plates match some that I have that I got for a tea party for Victoria's birthday a long time ago.

These books looked great, but I thought I would go back on the day that books were half off.

We LOVE watching Christian play soccer! He took a few seasons off and we were so proud of him for getting back in the game. Grandma and Grandpa came to watch Christian and Grant at their games. 

Katherine loved playing with this cute boy at the games and he loved her grandparents and wanted in on the attention. They thought he was so cute too.

I saw this and wanted to live close enough to share a Coke with Paige. FYI, she is one of the only friends that I keep in good touch with year after year. I love her like a sister and am so thankful for a lifelong friend.

We still spend a lot of time in the car waiting- sometimes we watch a movie. That dvd player has come in handy!

We repainted a dresser for a YW activity. It is great to see the transformation.

It is also great to see these girls grow in confidence and know how.

We donated the beautiful finished product with fresh paint and new knobs to a new refugee family in the area. 

I love it when Mrs. Wheeler shares pictures and videos. These were from a fun field day! (No volunteers needed). Grant really loved the slip and slide down the hill and it inspired some of our summer fun in our front yard.


V still loves car selfies and I am thankful, looking back, that I am in a few pics from time to time.

I somehow get a lot of pics like these two on my phone. G and K love to facetime their cousins! They chat most Sunday afternoons. Love these kids!





Thursday, March 29, 2018

Prepping for a Fun Run

I volunteered to help with a Fun Run at Yowell. The school really had to do more than I did to get this thing going, but I was the lead parent volunteer. Honestly, the fun run company, Boosterthon, did the majority of the work, but I was able to keep busy before and after the run. 
hanging posters,

sorting and delivering t shirts for the students and teachers,

meeting with "Awesome Andrew" and his team and the Awesome Administration (I am being funny, but they really are amazing!)

taking pictures at the events,

helping with set up/cleanup, etc.

It was fun to come watch the kids have fun. The Boosterthon team was really energetic and exciting and the kids really got into it!

It was fun to see some of their character lessons about characteristics such as...


I also got to keep track of pledges online- how much was pledged and even where the pledges came from. FYI, both the thermometer and the map filled up!


Wednesday, March 21, 2018

Grant- Star Stallion

Grant got a star stallion award for February! Good job, G-man!

Monday, March 19, 2018

March Mashup

I miss having  a kid home with me everyday, but I still love to play folder games with Kate from time to time. The months of the year- easy breezy. She is getting so smart.
Sometimes I take pictures at stores of things that I am considering buying. Take these pots for example. 

I went to a really good RS women's conference where the wonderful Lisa Clubb taught a class. She teaches Victoria's seminary class and has been an angel in our lives on several occasions. Her class was about friendship and was excellent. However, it brought all of my ugliest (well saddest) emotions right to the surface and I cried and cried because I miss having close friends. Even though I have lived here for about 7 months at this point and I love and respect so many people around me,  I feel very lonely. I don't have go to girlfriends to (comfortably) call on when I need help, whom I would feel comfortable to see my house when it is a mess, etc. It is really hard. I used to make friends so easily, but I have really struggled after each move. I find that I feel very insecure in new settings. I feel judged everywhere I go. It probably isn't true, but I don't know how people feel about me. I probably don't need to go on. I know that it will get better with time. I love others very easily and love to help others, so I am sure that as time passes people will sense that about me and feel comfortable around me. It really does take time and continued effort though. And as Lisa taught, "Comparison is the "cereal" killer of friendship." I need to stop thinking that everyone around me is better than me at everything. 

Speaking of friends, the Elder Daley, on the far left, really was one of our very best friends during his time in Culpeper. He just moved to another area a couple weeks before, and was someone that I needed to see that day. We really miss him being in our ward, but were glad to see him there. The other helper that day was Kim Cooper. She was willing to sit with the crazy crying lady at the luncheon and be a friend when I needed one. She is a really special lady and one who has been a big blessing too. (I am writing this several months later and know more about her now than I did then. She really is awesome!)
Cute face paint! 


It had been a while since Kate rode and she was pretty scared. Good dad to stay with her and help her get better! 
Instant pot pot roast for the win!

Speaking of winners...
1,2,3,
Go Blue Devils!
They won first place in the league! Well Done!
Cute Kate got sick. She never admits it, but she was.
She really remains pretty pleasant even when she is sick.

Katherine LOVES bath bombs!

Look at the start of this racer for the pinewood derby!

They worked on it at the high school.

It was cool to be able to use some of the tools in the wood shop.

Grant's favorite part was the air!
Kate's too.
Two  pigs at the neighbors' house.
March Snow Days
So much fun!
Hot chocolate!

Grant wanted applesauce....

I love these kitchen tools.

He does too. Amazing applesauce in minutes!


Did you know that National Ice cream day is a thing? It is! Thanks, Dairy Queen!

I loved this creative artwork. Each kid got a paper with some string/rope attached and had to draw a picture. I thought Grant's was really clever.